Monday, August 29, 2011

29 Aug 2011

Greetings from The Land of the Rising Sun!

So this week was a roller coaster of a week if I've ever had one!  (and it's only my second one here).  Monday was nice, we met an investigator who learned English from living in England, so it blew me away when she started speaking and it was with an English accent. I was not expecting such from that face.  The Lesson was way good, a bit rough around the edges, but nice.  Then after that we worked on
organizing our area so that we can plan our days more effectively and not criss cross the city as much.  In doing so we learned that our area is huge (about a hour and a half car ride from one side to the other if you're on the highway, 2.5 through the city) which means that the prospective for biking has exponentially increased....Whether that's good or not is yet to be seen.  But this city is great; it's actually in the city of Shunan which is way organized and has many activities going around.

Tuesday we had our first District meeting (for organization's sake, a mission is broken up into areas, the structure goes as such:  2 missionaries work in an area, and 3 or 4 areas make up a district;  3 or 4 districts make up a zone and there are about 10 zones in this Mission [the Japan Fukuoka Mission]  Each group has leaders in charge of each division, who help run their district/zone/mission all while
still doing work as a missionary as well).  Koyama 長老 is our district's District Leader, so he runs the meetings.  He just became the leader so it's a little rough around the edges, but the lesson was way good.  Our district is actually 6 people, and Koyama is the only Native Japanese, so he tries his best to go about half and half Japanese/English while teaching.  Bless his heart, there are just some things in English that just escape the Japanese, he's super good though.  At the meeting I got to meet up with Bushman 長老 (he and I were at the MTC together in the same district) and De La Mare 長老 (He also just came out, he's the group behind mine though)  and their companions.  We've got an awesome district going here!

Wednesday we got a totally random call from a former investigator asking if he could be taught again.  That day that was really all we accomplished, we spent the rest of the time searching but to no avail, a whole day of rejections is a little taxing.... but it was all made up for because that night was Eikaiwa.  We've got a good group of 20 or so people there, and I learned that I really need to work on finding good activities to get everyone involved (if you have any good word game ideas or awesome idioms that I can share please let me know [sometimes we play pictionary, guestures, black magic, this thing called Tango Bang Bang golf (to be eplained next time) or telephone and other such games]).  Also, I think I just used a triple imbedded parentheses.... but such is the nature of the Japanese language, so I think that it's just me becoming more Japanese!   :D

Thursday we had a Ping Pong event for a potential Investigator.  Right now she's in her second year of High School (In japan High School is only 3 years) and has participated in a couple of international competitions of Ping Pong!  Needless to say, everyone got skunked, but it was quite a sight.  I've never seen someone in person who's that exceptional at playing Ping Pong before. I didn't even know you could do half of the stuff she did.  We've got a good relationship going now, and soon we might be doing a Bowling Activity (I wonder where they got that idea from? :D)

Friday and Saturday were both a little rough, every appointment fell through so we had to constantly change our plans. Friday was all good because we found a new investigator (18 years old in High School) but other than that it was full of people not being home and really, doing nothing productive.  But such was to be expected; it was the last week of Summer break here (summer break is 40 days long and they still have morning school during it).  Saturday though, when we went to leave we found that both Koyama 長老's and my bike had gotten flat tires throughout the night.  Our plan was to have a 2 hour long bike ride to get to this place in our area, but that didn't happen.  When we went to get it fixed (the closest bike shop is about a 40 minute walk, and the first one we went to was closed!)  the guy was filling it up and blew out my tire!  So now I have a new tire for my bike.  And the rest of the day was doing what we could to find someone to teach.  But to no avail.

Then came Sunday!  So it started off with Church (we leave about 8:20 for meetings and church) and that was aweomse.  I finally got to meet everyone in the ward, and afterward we had a potluck!  (actually a shokujikai 食事会 but I couldn't quite find the right word to accurately describe it).   About 3:00 we finally left, and went and had a lesson with this kid named Watanabe 渡辺.  He's 13, and last week we had given him a Book of Mormon and gave his Mother one, as well.  When we went to meet up with them again, just the son was there, and we talked to him.  We asked him if he had read from the Book of Mormon at all (the pamphlet we had given him was placed about halfway in the book, usually a sure sign that they hadn't even picked it up after we gave it to them) and he was like, "Yeah, a little bit" (but in Japanese) and opened up the book to Alma 9 (more than halfway through the book) and pointed to where he had stopped reading.  Blew me away ...  in one week after being introduced to the Book of Mormon he had, on his own time during Summer Break, read half of the Book of Mormon!  During the lesson that followed we asked him what he thought about baptism. He responded "お願いします" [onegaishimasu] or essentially, "Please do!"  So now he's got a planned date for the 24 of next Month!

From taxing days full of rejection,but pushing through, to the awesome efforts of Watanabe, to the broken bikes, and the meeting old friends, this was really a wild week; and I really don't see it slowing down soon, either.  This is going to be a wild two years!

I feel like I really hit on something in Eikaiwa the other day when for the spiritual message I shared "When Life gives you lemons, make lemonade."  Life will be hard.  You are going to have days where you get absolutely nothing done, where it all seems futile, but pushing through, going through all those days and all those 'lemons' -  if you add a little bit of sugar, a little bit of pep and happiness in all you do, you get Lemonade.  I know it's still Summer back in the States, and what is better after a rough day than a nice cold glass of fresh lemonade?  So don't worry too much when life seems dark, dreary, and like it's going nowhere, because just around the bend, if you keep going, is that person, that time, that event that is waiting just for you.  So go out and find it.

Go do cool things.

エベレット長老
Elder Everett

22 Aug 2011

Ok, so you know how I said that transfers were last week, well the way they work here is that on Wednesday you get a call from the APs (assistants to the President) and they tell you who's moving, who's staying, and who your new companion is going to be.  So essentially we were all waiting Monday morning to find out where Buckingham 長老 was going to get transfered.  While we were thus involved in waiting (studying in the midst of it all) we got a phone call.  Not to the phone of De Freitas and Buckingham 長老 but to Clements 長老 and I.  SURPRISE! I got transferred! So no more Kumamoto for me, I am now on a completely different landmass a good half day's journey away.  I now reside/work in Tokuyama 徳山 in the Yamaguchi 山口 prefecture.

It was a little sad to leave everyone behind in Kumamoto, but we did have Eikaiwa that night so we got to have a last good bye to at least everyone that could make it to that.  Just before that though, in preparation for the impending Transfers, En 兄弟, the Guy who tried to bike to Tokyo, had us over for what he expected to be an end of transfer meal, not a farewell to Everett 長老 meal, but it all worked out for the better.  Kumamoto was way nice, and I wish everyone there the best of luck, but now I've got a whole new group of people to work with, and it'll just grow from there.

So I got to Tokuyama on Thursday about 3:30 or so and to my surprise Bushman 長老, from the MTC with me, was waiting; he's in my district now, and my new Companion is Koyama 小山 長老, a Japanese elder!  It's been an interesting dynamic at the apartment.  We've been able to communicate well, but there's just a little bit of a disconnect every now and then, and it makes for interesting situations (our first time cooking together was an experience in and of itself :)  Tokuyama is right on the Coast of Mainland Japan and we've got beautiful views of the ocean and several surrounding mountains, It really is quite pretty come sunset and sunrise.  Sometimes I think that coming from Japan, Koyama doesn't quite have the same wonder that I do for the simple little differences.

He's way good though, and working together been doing wonders for my Japanese.  Before, I didn't really use Japanese too much outside of contacting, church, and lessons (okay, so I used it quite a bit) but now I get it at home, too.  It's non-stop Japanese for me now!  Koyama is only on his 6th transfer and I'm on my 2nd, so we both are pretty new to this whole 伝道 missionary work thing.  It's great though, this area is in great shape and we have a bunch of people that we get to work with every week.  Plus we have a baptismal date coming up soon, so I have that to look forward to again!

I haven't had a whole ton of time to meet all of our investigators yet, but who I have meet have been awesome.  I've been able to find several things in common with all of them and that all important relationship and trust is building.  It's very difficult to teach somebody if they don't trust you.  (I just got way distracted, there's a deaf couple sitting next to me at the library and I've been trying to read their conversation) It seems like the greatest problem that our investigators have is really understanding the role of prayer, and why exactly this message is important in their everyday life.  Many of them are afraid, or embarassed to pray, and I just want them to understand that there really is no such thing as a bad praryer, as long as you are speaking what you are feeling and are truly trying to communicate your thoughts, God will hear and answer your prayer, sometimes you just have to do a little bit of searching before you can find that answer.  We speak to God through Prayer, and God speaks to us through the Scriptures and the Holy Ghost, through our feelings and thoughts.

So, good luck to everyone back home in all your various activities, I very much enjoy when I get to hear about the goings on back in the States (and various other places [Sweden and such]) and I keep every single letter that I've been sent.  It's becoming quite the stack so far, but I think that that is the way it should be.  Plus, I may or may not have a competition going on to see who sends me the most
stuff........

Well, things are great here in Tokuyama and I wish all of you the best in all you do.  The Computers here don't have a USB port so no pictures for the time being.

"So how long have you been out, a year?"
"Nope, one month."  =)

Elder Everett
エベレット長老

Monday, August 15, 2011

15 Aug 2011

Greetings from Japan!

Ok, so this week is the last week of the Transfer, I no longer have the excuse of being a bean (new missionary in mission lingo).  Though this first transfer has been awesome!  As a recap.... We got a baptism early on from a high schooler.  Yoshiaki is way cool, spent one year in America with a Member family in Montana, and searched us out when he got back.  This Sunday he got back from EFY (the first one in Japan) and blessed the sacrament for the first time.  That was an awesome spirit seeing him bless the sacrament and then bear testimony later in the meeting.  Another youth in the ward, his name is Naoya, also went EFY last week.  His testimony was a little hard to make out, but it was very powerful, 声涙 if you can figure out what that one means, well, you win the prize of the week!

After Yoshi was baptized though, we kind of lost all our investigators (he being the only one at the time).  BUT, after a few weeks we are at a good number of investigators.  We have 5 people that we are working with doing regular lessons, and several others that we are working with trying to get a lesson. The weirdest part is that we are doing about half of our lessons in English.  Well, those lessons are half and half English and Japanese, but that seems to be want they connect with.  As long as they are getting the lessons, I feel like it's all good. 

So, as it is the last week of the transfer, there are transfer calls coming up on Wednesday.  Our district leader (Buckingham 長老) is probably going to get transferred, he's been in his area for 4 transfers now, or about 6 months.  We learned the other day that he first entered into the area in February, before I even had sent in my mission papers.  One of our Zone leaders is transferring all the way to Provo (he's going back home) and another missionary in our zone is transferring to Sapporo (the other side of the country, he's also going back home)  In Missionary lingo, those missionaries are dying, but it's good knowing that they are just opening the way for new missionaries to become the next generation of missionaries in this part of Japan.  

Oh, did I mention the big news that we have DVD Players now?  We are supposed to use all of the DVD players for studying only, and boy what a study session we've been having lately, those Church videos are great. Our recent videos have been from the new Preach my Gospel videos called "The District" 1 and 2, and for our own time we've been watching the church's collection of Doctrine and Covenants movies.  Those are so good, I highly recommend you give them a watch if you have the time.  The message of each one is great and the filmography isn't terrible either.  I recommend the John Tanner movie and "Just a Stone Cutter".

So I feel like giving a typical day in the life of a missionary might be a good thing at this time.  

Everyday starts with us getting up at 6:30 (ok, maybe about 6:30) and exercising for 30 minutes.  This is anything from Jogging, to climbing this giant structure outside our apartment, to sit-ups and push ups.  Than at 7:00 we start eating breakfast, usually yogurt and granola, maybe some toast and jam, while we all vie for use of the shower.  By 8:00 we're all ready (mostly all) and starting our study for the morning.

We start study at 8:00 and have an hour of personal study, usually from the Scriptures, PMG, or anything else in the Missionary library.  Then, because I am a new missionary, we have 2 hours of companionship study where we study various different ways to teach and respond to peoples' needs and concerns, and where we plan out the lessons that we are going to teach that day.  After that we have an hour of Japanese study before Lunch.  

The typical lunch is some rice, and some sort of cooked meat and vegetables with various sauces thrown in, thrown on top of the rice.  And Barley tea, lots and lots of Barley tea.  The first time I drank it I thought it tasted like burnt popcorn, and it still kind of does, but it's nice not having to drink only water.  After lunch we start proselyting.  It is usually about 1:00 at this time, and we have most days planned out each and every half hour what we're going to be doing.  

Monday-P-day and west side dendo (mission work). Tuesday - up north.  Wednesday - Around the Daigaku (college) until Eikaiwa that night.  Thursday - Planning day for the next week, and working near the apartment.  Friday - Back up north and sports night at the stake center.  Saturday- everywhere and nowhere, this day changes every week with Eikaiwa stuck in at 2.  Sunday - church and wherever we're needed.  Lather, rinse, repeat.  We'll see what happens this coming transfer though; it'll be nice to have a good change of pace with new people coming in. 

Return to the Apartment by 9:00 and plan the next day, sleep by 10:30.

The days may seem mundane, and even routine, but by and far the experiences from each day, all the people that we meet and the awesome spirit we feel each day keeps every day exciting and, even though it is tough work mentally and physically, as we dither through we are promised the strength of the lord, possibly one of the greatest blessings we can receive. All we have to do is continue doing what we now we need to do, read the scriptures, pray always, and keep the Lord and his sacrifice always on our minds, it is hard to do wrong when all you are doing is right.

I love you all and wish you all the best.  Best of luck and remember, do cool things!

Elder Everett
エベレット長老

Monday, August 1, 2011

1 Aug 2011

Holy cow it's AUGUST (八月)!  

So Summer(夏) here is interesting.  The average temperature has been about 34/35 degrees C [94/95 F] and it's humid like nothing else.  Though hot weather means that every member we meet will give us something to keep back the obviously oncoming heatstroke.  I don't think I recall ever eating so much Ice Cream, and oh my goodness the barley tea is everywhere, I think I've drunk more of that than water.  Just a quick little bit on Barley tea (mugicha 麦茶) I kind of tastes like I am drinking burnt popcorn, and it has the most wonderful smell of fresh dirt.  But I have to say, that is is way better than having just water all of the time.  It's a good mix I think.  

SO Big news this week, WE GOT A NEW INVESTIGATOR! Huzzah! This lady lives up north (a good 40 minutes bike ride) and was mainly interested in learning English, but after we shared the gospel message with her, she became very interested and asked for our next couple of appointments to please continue teaching her about the Book of Mormon and our church more.  This is the first actual investigator since Yoshiaki, who is still doing awesome (he goes to EFY in a couple of weeks, it's the first EFY in Japan), and hopefully we can help her come closer to her savior and redeemer Jesus Christ.  [Editor's note: EFY is Especially for Youth, a wonderful Church camp for youth ages 14-18.]

It has come to my attention that I have not fully described exactly what Eikaiwa(英会話) is.  The direct translation is English conversation But it is just our English class we host for everyone in the community.  2 times a week we host the English class and really just have a good time.  This week I didn't really know what to talk about, and the book gives some suggestions, so this week I chose "Colors and Interior Design"  Why exactly that was one of the choices, I know not.  But we had a rather interesting conversation about 'earthy tones' and Japanese design styles. For some reason everybody giggled when I said "Bonsai trees" and "Koi Ponds"  apparently they don't have any special names for those in Japan, they are just Ponds and trees.  That and from a recent conversation at the Castle, Yoshi has started calling me "Pooh Bear" which he finds absolutely hilarious.  Apparently in Japan they call him "Pooh san" (san just being a title that you usually put after names ... personally I found Pooh-san much more entertaining than pooh bear)  But what can you do.

So the Castle[城] was awesome.  We went though the main building and one of the side living quarters.  The artwork there was just awesome.  However, I forgot to bring my link cable to upload pictures, so they will have to wait one more week.  Then I can really talk about it, I feel like my few words on this post just won't be enough to accurately describe it.

I just want to end by talking a bit about my Friends that are soon to be returning from their missions.  It's so strange to think that as I am just starting my real work, that they are finishing theirs up.  I know that they have been doing tremendous things for the people that they serve, and I hope that I will be able to do some sort of good among the people in Japan.  Matthew and Richard were such good examples to me throughout high school, and I am so glad that we have been able to stay strong in the faith and grow in the strength of the gospel.  This Gospel has the power to change lives and I have been able to see, even a small part, of just what kind of awesome change and blessings that can bring.  I implore all of you to experiment upon the words in the Book of Mormon, to ask God in Faith, nothing wavering, if some little bit of it is true.  Even if you have before, doing it multiple times will strengthen your own testimony and will increase your ability and confidence to share the Gospel in all that you do.  

I love you all very much, but I have a muffin lady to catch before she sells out all her chocolate muffins again.

Happy August from Japan

Elder Everett
エベレット長老
 
Elder Benjamin Charles Everett
Japan Fukuoka Mission
9-16 Hirao-josuimachi,
Chuo-ku,
Fukuoka-shi, Fukuoka
810-0029