Monday, April 16, 2012

Happy April from Japan! 16 Apr 2012


HAPPY APRIL!  So it's the 16th here, which means that in 4 days, this Friday, I will hit 1 year on the mission!  What in the world, how did this happen?  That's super fast, I'm not ready for that kind of speed yet!  

It has been a hectic week here.  We were hoping for it to culminate in a baptism this past weekend, but it ended up getting pushed back about a month, which is alright, if it'll help make her a stronger member and keep her closer to Christ. I think this'll be a good month!

Ok, so we had the Zone Leaders over for Companion Exchanges (Junkai) this past Monday and Tuesday.  On the mission we talk a lot about 'Junkai Miracles', because things just seem to come together on a junkai.  And, man, can I attest to that!  So the first day we ended up hitting the streets around Oita, we met people from pretty much all over the city (Even somebody from Kumamoto, and one from Osaka)  I even ended up exchanging e-mails with somebody (that's big thing for a missionary, you know).  Now the challenge is whether any of them will contact us back, or if contact will ever be made again....  One of the main things we try to do as a missionary is to teach people, whether it be on the street, in their homes, at the church, or wherever we may be.  Something must have been in the air in Oita because just from the streets, we ended up teaching 5 different people, in one night!  

Then on Tuesday we went to work again.  One of our members contacted us a little before and offered us lunch in the park!  Which was super awesome because 1) Sister Miyatake's cooking is super delicious and always the best! and 2) it was the last day of the Cherry Blossom season in Oita, so the trees were absolutely full of pretty pink flowers!  Oh man, why isn't there an SD reader here?  

Tuesday means that we had District meeting, which is currently done over the phone.  It's a huge difference from when I was up in Hiroshima.  In Hiroshima, everyone from all over the Zone meets up at one building, but Oita is the island of the mainland, so we're completely separated from everybody else.  But that doesn't stop the spiritual insights that come from district meetings!  We talked about Prayer, and its supreme importance for personal testimony and growth.  We talked about one sign that Elder Gregory saw a couple of years ago:  'If you meet the Mormons, don't pray; that's how they get you!'

Prayer opens the conduit to Heaven, prayer will calm the raging soul, prayer will give you your testimony.  Prayer might be the way we 'get you' but it's more like, prayer is the way we get to God.  Prayer isn't even that hard a thing to do.  We can pray at any time, any place, and essentially about any thing.  The most important thing though, is to pray with a pure heart, with real intent (the conviction to act on your answers) and, when necessary, on your knees.  "When you can't stand life, kneel."

The rest of that Tuesday was spent meeting people around the city and with a couple of our members.  Somehow, throughout all of the meals that we had to eat that Junkai (breakfast excluded) we didn't have to make or buy one meal, it was all provided by members!  Miracles do happen once in a while :)

Wednesday we ended up meeting with 2 very different 21 year-olds.  One, we met for lunch and talked about his studies to get into medical school.  We talked about the gospel, how it can help us, and really, who we are and our relationship to God.  He's working to help other people and strives for service, and the gospel is waiting, or rather, he is waiting for the gospel.

The second one works around the city and spends all his free time watching Anime, and doing what just about any normal 20 something year old does in Japan.  We ended up talking about the gospel, how it can help us, and our relationship to God.  And now he is waiting for the gospel.  

These are two very different people.  But they both have a place in the Gospel.  My descriptions of them do no justice to the extreme juxtaposition we experienced that day, or the revelation I found that it doesn't matter who we talk to, what kind of person we think they are, or what kind of personality, desires, manners, or habits we have, there is a place in the Gospel for us, and the Gospel is waiting for us.

The rest of the week was filled with meeting new people and several new friends.  We have just one more week left in this transfer, and the pace is furious!  

Saturday we had a family home evening over at one of our member’s house in the next city over.  She invited everyone from that other city for the activity and we ended up having a Family Home Evening with 24 people!  It honestly felt like a ward activity!  There was a ton of food (oh man, so delicious too) and a ton of people.  We ended up with 3 non-members, and 4 less active members at the event.  It was a very good Saturday night, and it was totally worth the hour long bike ride both ways! :)

Sunday, we pretty much came to an impasse as to what to do, we just couldn't find out which way we were supposed to go, or who we were supposed to meet.  We eventually decided on this one area and to try and visit as many people as we could around that place.  Just when we were about to go I saw this one name in our Less Active book and decided to write down the address, in case we had time to go and visit.  We ended up working a little late and it didn't seem like we were going to have time, we came to the crossroads; continue working on the apartment where we were now (about 200 families) or to go a visit the less active member on the other side of the city, who we didn't know if they would even be home or not.  Something told me that we should go, and we went.

So we made the journey over to the house. We were really excited because the light was on (the sign of hope for a missionary) and knocked, nobody came.  We knocked again, and nobody came.  I figured it'd be nice at least to leave a note or something for them to look at again.  So I take out one of our pass along cards and start to write.  It's a good thing it takes me so long to write in Japanese, because about half way through the note a bicyclist came up to the door.  I don't know if there's anything creepier than having two 20 year olds hunched over writing something in front of your door at 8:15 at night, but we definitely surprised her.  We just decided to be straight up and told her that we were from the Church, working as missionaries.  To which she then answers "Oh, you’re church people, oh okay.....Here, have a drink, you look thirsty."

I'm still not sure how it happened but, we met the member’s mother, talked to her for a while and somehow came back home with a bottle of lemonade, kit-kats and 2 bananas....and a possible meal appointment in the coming weeks.  We had no plan, no real reason, to make our way over there that day, but only a “feeling” that we should.  I don't know how this will end, or whether it will go anywhere beyond that night, but I do know that if we had not gone that night, we would never have had that conversation.  Listen to your little impressions!

Today we're making our way to Nobeoka (2.5 hours away by train) for this next week’s junkai.  And I'm fully expecting a wonderful junkai miracle!  

Have a good week, and keep in mind those little impressions that will tell you all things which you should do!

Love you lots!
Elder Everett

Elder Benjamin C Everett
Japan Fukuoka Mission
9-16 Hirao-josuimachi
Chuo-ku
Fukuoka-shi, Fukuoka
810-0029
JAPAN


Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Happy Easter from Japan! 9 Apr 2012


Happy Easter!  Truth be told, if they hadn't mentioned it in conference, I don't think anybody here would have known that it was Easter.... It's not a holiday that's celebrated in Japan, hardly even the members know about it.

So this week was a super busy week full of conferences and meetings!  Monday we had to make it over to Kumamoto for Zone Conference that Tuesday.  So, Oita, it's a great city, a ton of things to do here; it's super pretty with the Sakura (cherry blossom) trees everywhere and really nice sea views.... But it's really in the middle of nowhere.  It's a 4 hour bus ride to get to Kumamoto over several mountains and the next closest area is a 2.5 hour bus ride away!  

Ok, I have to confess.... On the 4 hour bus ride to Kumamoto they were playing the movie 'Unstoppable'  and I may have watched it all.  In my defense, I didn't actually listen to it, but I did do my best to try and read the subtitles that were all in Japanese.  I can call it Japanese practice right?  I did get to develop a pretty good relation to the gospel from the movie though, and I am planning on using it in an upcoming lesson.  That's how it's supposed to work right?

Well, the Zone Conference was awesome!  So we combined with the Kagoshima zone and here's the interesting thing.  Elder Clements, my first companion, is now an Assistant to the President (AP), and trained at the meeting.  Then Elder Koyama, my second companion, is now a Zone Leader (ZL) for Kagoshima and also trained at the meeting.  Then Elder Beckstrand, my third companion, is now a ZL in Kumamoto and also trained at the meeting!  I ended up getting to meet 3 of my 4 previous companions again!  It was a way cool thing and we got to learn a lot of awesome things.  

What stands out most in my mind though, is the training from the APs.  So, they didn't really teach anything, but provided rooms full of quotes, activities, and spiritual thoughts so that we can find and focus on the subject that we each felt we needed to focus on most.  We ended up having a half hour of personal time to learn and study for the things we needed most, an individual, very personal training.  

My favorite activity was all about Hymns.  We had to pick our favorite hymn and read through it, just reading the words.  After reading it, write in a journal how you feel, what it means, why it is your favorite hymn, and how you can apply its teachings.  Of course I read "True to the Faith"!  It's been my favorite him since I was 12, and it just keeps having more and more meaning as I continue on!  

Shall the youth of Zion falter
In defending truth and right?
While the enemy assaileth,
Shall we shrink or shun the fight? No!

True to the faith that our parents have cherished,
True to the truth for which martyrs have perished,
To God's command,
Soul, heart, and hand,
Faithful and true we will ever stand.

While we know the pow'rs of darkness
Seek to thwart the work of God,
Shall the children of the promise
Cease to grasp the iron rod? No!

We will work out our salvation;
We will cleave unto the truth;
We will watch and pray and labor
With the fervent zeal of youth. Yes!

We will strive to be found worthy
Of the kingdom of our Lord,
With the faithful ones redeemed
Who have loved and kept his word. Yes!

True to the faith that our parents have cherished,
True to the truth for which martyrs have perished,
To God's command,
Soul, heart, and hand,
Faithful and true we will ever stand.


Take time and really read what the words mean.  We are called to a fight, a fight against sin.  No matter where we are, we will face adversity, we will have hardships, it will be a hard time, but that is good.  We have a stronger power on our side, we have a greater cause we work for, we have a more powerful way.  Recently I've been reading from the New Testament.  In several of the epistles from Peter he talked about the hardships that we will inevitably face.  The most important thing we can do is to make sure that when we face adversity, that we face adversity for doing good and following Christ.  Everyone can face adversity for doing wrong, for doing bad, but how blessed is he that does good, and will suffer for the Lord, for his is the kingdom of Heaven.  

Ok, so that ended up being a little more down-trodden then previously planned, but the truth stands.  For a more happy tone, remember the reason for the Season.  We do not celebrate Easter because we like seeing colored grass, decorated eggs, chocolate bunnies, and pretty flowers (but they are fun), we celebrate it because we know that the Savior lives.  Because He lives, we too, along with everyone in the entire world, will also live.  I know that this is true, we will one day all live, we will all receive the sublime blessing of an immortal and perfect body.  I know that this is true, and my faith and testimony of this only deepens as the days go.  Don't drown out the truth you know with the trivial acts of daily life; we know more, and thus we must do more.  And we can do it.

Much love to you all!

Elder Everett

It's April already? I just left last April! 2 Apr 2012

Alright, it's the second day of April so no more foolin' around right?  Surprisingly, more people in Japan knew about April Fools’ Day than I thought would.  They're just too nice to do anything with it though.  

Anyway, let’s see, where do I start?  This was a good week.  Tuesday we headed out to one of the other cities in our area (we have like 4 or 5) which took a nice hour bike ride to get to, it's a really pretty ride though right next to the shore!  We went to visit one of our investigators and her recent convert daughter who live at the top of one of the mountains over in the next city.  So we took our bikes up this huge mountain.... I'm not sure if my legs could ever take that kind of a beating again, but to show how massive this was, coming down, it took 15 minutes going max speed the whole way!  Now just take that image, and flip it backwards going up!?  We got a really good lesson out of it though!  

From there we made the journey up to APU where Naoya is (it's another 30 minute bus ride from where we went before).  Right now is when all of the schools in Japan are starting their new school year, so with his new job as an RA he is super busy.  All day long he had people coming in and out, having to show them around the campus and prepare for the welcome party.  We only ended up talking for a couple of minutes but we did get to hand over a Book of Mormon.  (The one he has that we gave him before, he had left at his Parents’ house.... oops)  He's way busy right now, but maybe in a week or two we can meet with him again!  

Then we had yet another appointment that Tuesday.  We went to go visit one of our investigators, who just got Baptized YESTERDAY!  We got the whole ward to come out early to the Baptism on Sunday morning (We didn't have General Conference, that's not until next week when they get it all translated) before Sacrament meeting!  Brother Ito found the church this past January (he looked it up online and everything) and has just been a champ with all the lessons and commitments.  He quit smoking, comes to church every week, reads The Book of Mormon every day, and is planning on going with the ward to the Temple in May!  This guy is amazing, and I can't wait to see him keep progressing from here!

So we had a jam packed Tuesday, which, I hoped would be a shadow for the week, but most of this week was people either not being home, or straight out rejections from those we had met before.  We did get a good meeting with our Ward Mission Leader, over a nice dinner at a Hamakatsu restaurant.  (A Japanese dish that I highly approve of!)  Apparently the missionaries haven't been meeting with him for a while, and he has been struggling to come to church, so it was a really good meeting and I hope that it'll help him come back to the church.

This past week, as well, we finally got in contact with one of our new investigators.  We asked her if we could meet with her this past week to answer any questions she might have from The Book of Mormon we passed over to her last week.  That's just kind of the usual way that we ask to meet with people, and I've come to expect the answer "Oh sorry, I haven't really read any of it, I've been really busy."  So you can imagine our surprise when she answered, 4 days after we first met her, "Sorry, I've only read about 100 pages, so I don't really know much yet."   WHOA!  We're trying to meet with her at least once a week (maybe twice) now and working with her and her son.  She has a great concern for her son, who has a very strong stutter, and is really excited to see if this church can help him acclimate to social life, and normal friends.  Right now the only big problem with accepting the Gospel is a big anti-church pressure from her husband.  We'll see where it goes from here!

Then on Saturday we had a meeting with one of our part-member families.  The husband has been around the church for several decades now, but still remains aloof.  He's actually the Bishop's father, and we're trying to work with him more.  We ended up meeting over a meal at their house.  I'm not sure how Sister Goto picked what she would make for dinner but, somehow she hit on all of my favorite foods.  For one example, dessert was Banana Pudding cake!  BANANA PUDDING CAKE!  I had not thought that I would ever have banana pudding here in Japan, everyone I've tried to explain it to could never really grasp the concept, but, here it came up!  I tried to tell myself that I would take it easy, but by the end of the meal, with several refills from the couple, I ended up eating half of the dessert.  The wife told us she was counting calories and gave me her piece, then the husband put another one on my plate after I finished, and by the time it was the end of the meeting there was one piece left which somehow made it onto my plate.  I don't feel guilty whatsoever, just wholly satisfied!

Well, this next week looks to be pretty busy.  We have a Zone Conference on Tuesday so we're headed out to Kumamoto today.  Oita is so far away from any other area that we never get to actually see any other missionaries, so it's always a special event when we do.  This is quite a change from the weekly meetings with 14 other missionaries in Hiroshima.  Well, Oita is crazy good in other ways, I'm sure it'll make up for it.

I love you all and wish you the best this next week!

Elder Everett

NOTE:
 Ben LOVES to get letters and e-mails.  He cannot respond to emails and rarely writes letters, but he loves to receive them!
Elder Benjamin Everett
Japan Fukuoka Mission
9-16 Hirao-josuimachi
Chuo-ku
Fukuoka-shi, Fukuoka
810-0029
JAPAN

benjamin.everett@myldsmail.net

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Oita, Japan - part 2, 26 Mar 2012

So, I've decided that Oita is a crazy place to serve!  We have an actual ward here that is so easy to invite investigators to, I feel like I'm in a completely different place!

Ok, let’s start from last Monday.

So, we have a baptism coming up soon (4/1) and had the baptismal interview this past Tuesday, so in order to do the interview we had to have our District leader come over here and conduct the interview.  Oita is kind of in the middle of nowhere.  The closest area is a 2 hour train ride away, so I was excited that I actually got to see other missionaries here in Oita!  The interview went fantastically.  The man getting baptized actually searched out the missionaries (he had remembered meeting them from high school 20 years before) and started the lessons just 2 and a half months ago!  He's so good, I can't wait to see him develop as a member!

So the missionaries that had to come over for the interview, they came over from Nobeoka.  One of them is a new missionary, who's older brother just ended his mission from Japan, and was the former companion of the older brother of my new companion.  It's a small, small world. 

Tuesday we had a talent fair and pot luck for the Relief Society foundation memorial day (I have no idea what it's called in English
扶助教会創立記念祭....).  It was a really good way to meet the members and try to get to know them.  (I want to show pictures but, I might just buckle down and buy a USB, SD card reader...  You'd think being in Japan I could find more SD readers, but, nope, I still have yet to find a computer with an SD reader, so USB it is.)

So, coming to Wednesday, that means we had Eikaiwa!  This Eikaiwa is pretty cool, all of the students are already pretty much fluent in English, so it pretty much just free talk for an hour and a half!  The other thing we did on Wednesday, and really this past week, was focus on Less Active members.  We just marked on our big ol' map where every member lives (less active or not) and are getting ready to make our rounds to as many as we can!  So far it's been good things!  We ended up meeting with 4 different families and hopefully we'll get to see some of them either at the baptism or at General Conference!  There are just a ton of less active members that just got too busy and forgot about the church, simple things such as a reminder visit, or a simple  "Hey, how ya doing?" can be the starting block for a member's journey back to the church.  It's amazing how it can be so simple.  But “the Lord doth work by small means to bring about His great and eternal purposes, to the confounding of the wise (or at least those who think they are) and the salvation of many souls.”

Another thing we've been focusing on recently is getting in contact with former investigators.  We ended up meeting with this one college student who is a co-captain for his college's Ultimate Frisbee team!  We were totally pumped to go play with them sometime but, they only have practice on Sunday.... Man, maybe they'll get Thursday practices back up, that'll be good :)  Though, randomly calling people on your phone under the "investigator" list can be an interesting experience.... We ended up getting in contact with an excommunicated member who invited us out to dinner; turns out he loves the missionaries.  We'll see where that goes...

Sadly we didn't get to teach Naoya this week.  We were planning on meeting on Saturday, but, he just started a new job as a resident advisor at his college, and school starts in April in Japan, so right now is his busiest time.... it also doesn't help that he caught a killer cold on Thursday.  But we've got phone calls and texts going, we'll keep him up!  Hey, if you guys see him on Facebook, send him a message, he hasn't really heard a lot from anybody back in the states in a long time, that, and his English as gotten a lot better, so it should be no problem for him to respond back! 

I think that's about all that’s goings on here in Oita.  We've just been getting ready for the baptism this Sunday, and preparing another investigator for the 14th, and trying to keep the area up in general.  We've got a lot of good things happening in Oita right now (a ton of Less Active members at Church, and investigators too) this'll be an exciting next couple of weeks!

Peace from the Far East
エベレット長老
Elder Everett

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Crazy good things happening in Japan! 19 Mar 2012

Whoa, can you believe that it's already half way through March?!  How in the world did that happen? 

Ok, so last time I told you all that we had transfer calls and that crazy things were happening right?  Ok, so now I am e-mailing from the Oita 「大分」 Ward in the Kumamoto Stake.  Man, I thought that Yasufuruichi was a pain to travel in, but Oita, man, we pretty much have an entire prefecture that we are in charge of!  That and we live about 20 minutes (if you hurry) from the church, all up this giant hill, with seminary each morning (yay for early morning seminary again!) I'm getting a mean set of goat legs....

Ok, so let’s start from the beginning, because this is going to be a crazy post!  So, transfer calls come on Wednesday right?  Okada and I both knew that we were leaving so we had already mostly packed (we still had a crazy amount of cleaning and organizing to do, though) just sort of waiting to hear where the heck we were headed.  So, Okada is heading back to Okinawa on this island called Miyakojima, the very most southern part of Japan, and I get moved back to Kumamoto Stake in Oita!  I don't know if you remember why Oita and I have a connection or not, but, I'll explain that one later. :D

Tuesday we made it back to the Sign Language circle put on by one of our less active members.  We had to break the news to everybody about transfers, which ended up being way sad.  We had made really good friends with most of the other members there and 5 weeks was just not enough to really get a good segue into the gospel, but hopefully the Sisters will take care of the rest.  Now I have to see if I can find a way to keep up JSL.

From all 4 missionaries in Yasufuruichi, only Sister Mueller stayed, Elder Okada and I had most of the week to prepare to leave everybody but poor Sister Miyagawa just got the brunt of it all on Wednesday.  That Eikaiwa was a special *Cooking* Eikaiwa.  We made American brownies, but the challenge was that we could only speak in English.  Which ended up being harder than originally planned, seeing that we had 5 students under the age of 12.  We got them all cooked though, so I guess it was all good....  But at the end of Eikaiwa, we always have a spiritual thought before we close and it fell upon me this past week.  I talked to them about Loving one another and the meaning of the song "Love One Another".  A couple of the members were trying to tell me that they thought I was about to cry, but that's nothing compared to Sister Miyagawa; right after the closing prayer we started taking pictures with everybody and she was bawling the whole time.  Man, it's hard for sister missionaries, especially when you've been in an area as long as that.  But I know she'll have a great time with her new companions down in Kagoshima.

That night Okada and I still had to get the apartment ready to close, which ended up going until about  4AM!  Which was way rough for the 8AM bullet train we had to catch!  We were planning on meeting with one of our Eikaiwa students at about 7 for breakfast, but that just never happened, too much to do to close an apartment.  Two days is just not enough to get done all we needed to (especially since we had other obligations in our area which is a half hour train ride away)  Mah, we got most of it done, we'll just leave the rest to the ZLs. 

On Thursday I get into Oita about 11 in the morning, crazy fast, via the train 'Sonic 9'.  Oh, how I love the names in Japan!  My new Companion, Elder Takahashi, is from Saitama over in the Tokyo Mission. It's been an interesting couple of days so far, but, I'm sure we'll figure out what needs to get done.

Oita is doing crazy good with missionary work.  We have a baptismal interview scheduled for tomorrow and 1 more in the next couple of weeks, and if things go well with our new investigator (who I'll explain in a little bit :D) we could be looking at 3 baptisms this transfer!!  One of the people looking to be baptized is the mother of one of the recent converts in the ward, and the other found the church Online; this last one that may happen, is a referral from a missionary, which, well, that hardly ever happens!

Ok, so this mystery investigator that I've been talking about, you might want to take a seat.  So, I get here this past Thursday, and we set a lunch appointment for Friday with this kid named Naoya Matsuda.  He did a study abroad in high school for a year, over in America … in North Carolina … at my house!  Naoya is our new investigator!  We ended up meeting for Lunch at the half way point from the church and his apartment (he lives about an hour away) and had lunch!  It was so weird meeting him again!  His hair is so long now, I hardly recognized him.  We're going to see if we can meet with him on Fridays, and maybe Thursdays and, you know, maybe Sundays, too.  He said that he'll start reading the Book of Mormon (from the start this time, not coming in right in the middle of it.....) and see how it goes!  His English has gotten better too! 

I think it's going to be good things here in Oita.  The members are awesome, we're getting super sweet help from the young men's presidency (who happen to all be American!) and its going to be a good transfer, I can feel it!

Elder Everett
エベレット長老

Monday, March 19, 2012

It's TRANSFER WEEK in Japan! 13 Mar 2012

What in the world? This transfer is already over!  Happy St. Patty's Day (almost there right?) and Happy March Madness!  Let me just say, that I know it’s March Madness over there, but I'm pretty sure that's an apt description of the goings on over this side of the globe, too.
 
So, Transfer calls, it's a crazy day on that Wednesday, everybody wants to know what's going on.  But equally as terrifying is the Monday before.  Because if something is happening in your area that is extreme or out of the ordinary, Monday is the day the AP's (assistants to the President) send you a call.  So you can imagine how I felt while climbing up Mt. Misen overlooking Miyajima and the phone rang showing AP 1.  So, we just got a new AP (the previous one just finished his mission) and he just so happens to be my Trainer!  So Elder Clements (it's been a while since I've typed that name in here, huh?) asked me if Okada 長老 was near so that he could tell us some news.  He says "All right, I'm going to tell you half of your transfers." 
 
WHAT, you're going to tell me half?  I thought you loved me!
 
Ok, so here's what I've got.  Yasufuruichi is becoming a Sister's area and the Elders are closing!  So now Okada and I have to pack up and gut our apartment of all food before Wednesday!  Man, that's the second time I've cleaned out an apartment in the same area!  It's pretty funny because only Okada 長老 and I have lived in that apartment, and no one is coming in after us!  So, I don't know where either of us is going yet, but, one thing is for sure, the next e-mail won't be coming from Yasufuruichi.  (oh man, that's so sad to say)
 
Ok, so other exciting events on this side.  Thursday we get a call at 6:50 from the Elders in Takasu saying "Hey, can you guys come over and teach our Eikaiwa (at 7:00), we have to go to the Hospital." So, two train rides, a series of phone calls, and a half hour later we finally end up at their Eikaiwa.  So Elder Mitton, about 200cm, was running down the stairs to catch a phone and jumped the last two steps.....jumped straight into the ceiling.  He was running pretty hard apparently because it knocked him out for a few seconds.  He ended up with a 3cm deep gash on the crown of his head.  He walked up to the second floor to get his companion, and to get some help from the members, and blood was just all over him.  In his own words "I've never seen that much blood come from my body in my life."  He may or may not have scared the kids that were there, but 5 stitches and a day of recovery later, he's back in action. 
 
It actually ended up being a really good Eikaiwa, they had 5 new students come, and I'd have to say it was one of the most successful Eikaiwas I have ever done!  Too bad it wasn't in my area.... 
 
Alright, here's the feel good story of the week.  So, Okada 長老 and I have been going to a sign language circle every Tuesday this transfer.  One of our Less Active members teaches over there (she's been deaf since she was about 5 years old) and we've been making a really good relationship with her.  Last week we finally got to talk to her straight, and invited her to come to church.  She was a little worried about coming because last time she came there wasn't really anyone there to translate for her, so she kind of just felt like a burden, and left out.  But luckily, our Branch president (and his wife) are fluent in Japanese Sign Language 「手話」 so she felt a lot better about coming.  This past Sunday she came to church again (the first time in I don't know how long) and it seemed to go really good.  The Branch President translated for her during Sacrament meeting and Sunday School (which one of our other investigators randomly showed up for, but that's another story) and his Wife translated for her during Relief Society.  She seemed to really enjoy it, and hopefully she'll come back again!  But that's not the end of the story.
 
Previously when she came she was always helped out by this one Member.  That member has been less active for the past several years now, and had actually cut all communication with the Missionaries for a time.  But, when the deaf member came back she asked if the other member would be there to help out.  I think she even might have texted her, but, through a series of events the Less Active member let us know that, "Well, this Sunday is a little bit rough, but I'll see if I can help out another Sunday."  The whole time I've been in Yasufuruichi we haven't been able to talk to her once.  But this past week, with visits from one of our ward missionaries (Brother Schrubb who just got reactivated since I've been here) and the deaf member coming back, she finally accepted a visit from the Sister missionaries!  Over the past 3 years it's been a rough battle to even get a good conversation with her, but now, with a little work, faith, and a lot of prayer, she may even find her way back to church again!  She used to be the heart and soul of this branch, and she may have burnt herself out working too hard, but it looks like there's the start of a flame; the spark has started, now we just have to feed it.  How great shall be your joy if you shall bring one soul into the presence of God! 
 
Good luck this week and have a wonderful March!
 
Elder Everett
エベレット長老

Elder Benjamin Charles Everett
Japan Fukuoka Mission
9-16 Hirao-josuimachi
Chuo-ku
Fukuoka-shi, Fukuoka
810-0029
JAPAN

Sunday, March 11, 2012

6 Mar 2012


How is it already a week into March?!

Hey, well, this has been a way good week.  Or really, a way good last couple of days! 

So let’s start on Thursday.  So, one of our Eikaiwa students has been on a kick of having us out to eat and giving us tons of food lately.  His latest venture was on Thursday where he bought us roughly $80 worth of beef (crazy good steaks) and then to an all-you-can-eat Yakiniku (fry your own meat) restaurant!  I don't know what he's thinking but, I will partake as I can!  I think because I always help him with his English questions and understand him when he uses Grammatical terms that he's become fond of me, even if it does seem a little creepy at times.  He's a fan of love songs and has me help him translate some of them..... "Some say love...."  Fun stuff.

Oh, for the last Eikwaiwa of the Transfer we are planning a big Cooking Eikaiwa event where we're going to make Brownies!  Elder Okada made a hand drawn flyer for the event (I'll try to send one to the parents) it turned out pretty sick!  Now we'll just have to see if people come to the event.  3/14 (it's a holiday in Japan called White Day.  See on Valentine’s Day all the girls give the guys chocolates, and on White day the guys have to give something in return to whoever gave them something on Valentine’s Day.... Only in Japan).

Also March 3rd, Saturday, was another festival here.  (Japan has at least 2 a month, sometimes more!)  This was the Doll festival (Hina matsuri)  that's usually just for girls, but we got invited to 3 different meals that day!  Next time I get a chance to send over some pictures I'll try to get some over!  Meals are always nice, but they're even better when we get to have a way good lesson with one of our members who’s having a hard time.  He came back from his mission after only 7 months, so we've been trying to work with him to help him keep in good spirits!  He's graduating from College this next week and we had a really nice talk about how doing simple things like reading your scriptures, saying your prayers, attending church, can help you overcome any weakness or any difficulties you have.  Not only that, but it will improve your life in all aspects: finding a job, family relationships, friendships, using time wisely, helping others, really, everything!  

6 Now ye may suppose that this is foolishness in me; but behold I say unto you, that by small and simple things are great things brought to pass; and small means in many instances doth confound the wise.
            7 And the Lord God doth work by means to bring about his great and eternal purposes; and by very small means the Lord doth confound the wise and bringeth about the salvation of many souls.
 We may think that we don't need to do the simple, seemingly insignificant things that we know we need to do, but it's true, it will confound the wise how simple acts will have a greater effect on a person’s development than any sort of event could ever have. 

This past Tuesday our District meeting was all about Obedience and how obedience brings blessings, but exact obedience brings miracles.  We learned about the rut-o-meter,  that tells you exactly how far in the rut you are.  It comes from D&C 88:35

1) Break a Law [you break a law once, you can repent pretty easily]
2) Abide not by the law [breaking the law becomes a habit (sleeping in regularly or not reading your scriptures or praying)]
3) Seek to become a law unto yourself [your attitude is entirely contrary, much harder to repent now)
4) Willeth to abide in sin [you begin to brag to people about how you can get away with it]
5) Altogether abideth in sin  [breaking this law is not enough, you have to now find new ways to be rebellious, previous breaking wasn't good (bad) enough for you]

Hopefully we can all identify our rut and get out of it before it becomes too deep.  I encourage you to find your rut, and to do the small and simple things, step by step, that will take you out of whatever rut you may be in.  Find your rut, and with some help and patience, you will prevail!

Days are always better when I get to see a letter in the box, but when it's packages, 3 no less, that's a good day!  I got everyone's Valentines messages (I may have showed them off :]) and good eats from the Family (I totally forgot that it's girl scout cookie season!)  I'll try to be better at returning the letters!  (Writing is definitely not my forte ~.~)

I love you all!

Elder Everett